There’s many things in my life that bring me joy… my family, my friends, a (hot) steamy romance book, cup of coffee, warm shower after a long day, perfect slice of pizza, manicure… and yes, a visit to my hairdresser Leah at La La Luxe Salon (who also happens to be a really good friend of mine!).

I started finding grays (oh, yes…) in my hair about 5 years ago.  I wasn’t that surprised.  My grandfather was completely white by the time he was 35 years old.  His daughter, my mother – started going white when she was in her 30s.  So I knew it was just a matter of time.  Since my hair is (spoiler alert) naturally dark, the grays and whites popping up in my hair were like little neon signs saying, “Here I am!”

So I did what Leah (my miracle worker) recommended, “Go blonde. The blonde will hide the grays and the whites.”

And I’ve loved it.  Since the boys have light hair, kind of makes me feel like I’m fitting right in. And truthfully, I don’t know if many people know me or remember me with dark hair…

That was me and Matt in Dec of 2007… actually, on the day I found out Henry was a BOY. I think the whole… holy CRAP 4 BOYS(?) was going through my head in that photo.

But nonetheless, I started going blonde, blonde and blonder after Henry was born. I have to admit, I get such JOY going to the salon and relaxing. I sit. I read. I laugh with the ladies there. I get “beautified” by someone else (an expert!). I just get peace and joy… even with 50 foils in my hair…

And then they come out… and my hair looks lighter and Leah blows it out. For 45 minutes I get someone fawning over my hair, and you know… it’s just nice. As moms, we deserve a little pampering and something-something on the beauty front sometimes!

And just like that… happiness!

I was able to finagle a few hours away with the help of my mom and my husband – thank you for watching the boys!!

Find some time for a pampering break in your life, it’s necessary for us all!